I have lived with my partner for 10 years and he and I don't seem to have the same idea of what you should and shouldn't do in a relationship. One problem is that he never wants to be home. He feels that he should be free to go and be with family, friends or do whatever whenever he feels like it regardless of what we need to do or of my feelings. I know you need to do things without each other, I'm not asking him to be attached to my hip at all times but to be gone every weekend? Every weekend he has something else to do. When I complain he says that he works hard all week and doesn't get to do anything and on the weekends he wants to do things and see people. I guess I don't count. He says if we had kids it would be different. Just asking for other opinions. Am I wrong on this?