I'm on lamotrigine and wellbutrin. My drive hasn't really changed but I've heard a lot of people praise wellbutrin for sex drive. I don't know anything about your current medications though.

I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. Congratulations on getting married, it's so nice to have an SO who understands your struggles (as best as a non BP can). Things will turn out alright in the end. If you're ever lost we at the forums like to encourage each other.

Hugs!