Oh ((daisy)) you have so much on your plate. I don't know how you manage all that and struggle with your health at the same time.

Have you checked to see if you might be experiencing early menopause? That can cause head aches and feeling depressed as well as no libido, and trouble sleeping and even weight gain. Also make sure you are not pregnant again too.

You also have a history of trauma so you should (after you make sure it isn't physical so check the gyno issues) make an appointment with a psychiatrist and make sure you bring this post listing your history.

You "may" have PTSD that can happen even years after a trauma so seeing a psychiatrist may help you. I am not diagnosing you however, it is just that some of your symptoms can be due to that, you could look it up too.

Welcome to PC, maybe some other members may have some helpful input. Oh, and have your thyroid checked too.

OE