We all have our own path to blaze in life, but I have a relative that follows me around like a ghost. However, I'm reserved and they're flamboyant, so the net effect is that everyone sees them and I'm canceled out. It seems to be their goal in life to cancel out anything that's unique to me. Instead of chasing their own goals, they just want to rub me out. It's like a dog digging up another dog's doggy bone then prancing around the neighborhood with the bone proudly on display.