Thread: T tied my shoes
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Old Dec 11, 2013, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by growlithing View Post
Well she said "I really want to tie your shoes". I find that much less patronizing than "tie your shoes" or even "I want you to tie your shoes"
Personally I would find it really patronizing if someone didnīt feel like I could tie my own shoes, and really wanted to do it for me. Whats next...? Is she going to cut out your food at mealtimes too? Seems like an unhealthy countertransference and that you are enjoying the ride..
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