“But better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.”
― Khaled Hosseini
I think your relation is in serious trouble, 6 times daily is far from normal and him not wanting actual sexual contact with a woman is an alarming sign.
watching porn every once and then is a normal and understandable behavior that's y u can't ask him to stop cuz you handle it perfectly normal.
however in his situation it's affecting his sexual life and his partner too (I guess it hurts the woman to feel that her partner isn't attracted to her or unwilling to have sex with her)
talk to him if he continue his daily routine and isn't trying to make some changes then am sorry but the best thing to do is leave him.
you're a woman with desires and deserve a man who wants to love you and satisfy you (sex is an important factor in any relationship)