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Originally Posted by EmilysZoo
It seems like you were able to be alone for a few hours, the sexual tension was too much, you decided to spiritually give yourselves to one another (intercourse), and now you are trying to relieve some guilt about this action by saying it's ok because it's what you believed all along.
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This is not a correct reading of the OP. OP feels no guilt. I am surprised you read it that way - it almost seems as if you were projecting something from your own world onto OP. Comic... writes very well and it is clear that she 1) does not feel guilt; 2) does not believe that she is expected to feel guilt. Moreover, I think she is on the right track in that she, more or less, realizes that the beliefs held by her and her man are superior in terms of meaning and symbolism to the beliefs held by her parents, and I totally agree with her.