I have a sponsor in AA who I really like and respect and who has helped me a lot - she even let me stay at her place when I was doing day detox. She has 23 years sober from alcohol. I specify the alcohol because she called me the other day to tell me that she's smoking pot and is doing it increasingly regularly and so she's technically not really clean and sober. I asked her if she wanted to quit using and she said no. She said she'd totally understand if I wanted to find another sponsor but it just feels weird to be going to someone for help working the program when they're not clean themselves.

So I guess I'm just really conflicted in what I should be doing. Thought's out there from an AA's with some sober time?