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Originally Posted by robflee23
for whatever reason i cannot make myself be tough. ive been exercising, eating healthily, and doing everything right for the past 4 months, have felt great, but i always end up coming back to feeling lonely and sad. its almost like the only thing thatll make me truly happy is being in a relationship, which i know is bad, but i just cannot get it out of my head, and i feel like im on the edge here.
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When i read what you wrote, it helped me reflect on my most important relationship...the one i am now building, no matter in or out of an intimate relationship, is the one I have with my own self...coming to grips with my fears, with my sadness even...with where they came from, and how I can learn from them...accepting nothing could have been any different... i am making little bits of progress...i hope you can identify some little progress in your relationship with your self, too...and not be too hard/tough on yourself...
it IS a struggle...i know...
i am so glad you shared, because it not only helped remind me of THE most important relationship, but helped me see how I have felt exactly the same way...and, when I feel that way, it is harder to remind myself of the true progress I have made in the most important relationship of all... with one"s own heart.
