Thank you so much everyone for your replies! I do have a masters degree in psychology but sometimes it helps when you can have unbiased opionions. I tend to be dramatic and over analyze everything in my life. I'm deciding this is one of those times. We sat down together and talked about everything and he said he does want me to meet his son, just asked me to be patient and wait for the right time. I'm going to take the advice of just working on him and I for a while. I do love this man. I do think he is in this for the long haul. I think I was just putting up a wall, like I usually do, trying to end things before I got in too deep. Although, I realize I'm already in deep since my boys are in deep with him. I have no regrets in introducing him to my sons. I just need to quit over analyzing everything. Your replies have helped me so much!