you can't deny that you'd be upset if your partner who'd recently been into it seemingly all of a sudden didn't want to anymore. It goes for both sexes. Have you tried being intimate despite your lack of desire? It may be easier to do that than to deal with the alternative and you may find it helps lift your spirit.

But timing is everything. Start the evening off that way. Don't let the sexual tension build then flip out and say leave me alone, she will take it personal. .