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Old Dec 12, 2013, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet View Post
How do I communicate to my partner that I don't want to have sexual intercourse with her without telling her that I am too depressed to do so? I don't want to talk about my depression or for her to think it's a big deal. Just want to ride it out and then I will resume normal activities.

It seems to be a problem every time. Somehow she makes it all about her.
I don't think there's a way that you don't tell her. Mention how you're feeling, and maybe let her know that there are other ways that you want to show intimacy. Tell her that sex isn't something you want, but you can cuddle, or kiss, or hold hands... just another way to show love and care for her.

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