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Originally Posted by roger2014
I noticed in my area people seem to work
So many hours,juggling school and work, etc.
And I have gotten to spend very little time with
Potential mates.
Then I feel like we get into this texting-only
routine but finding time together seems like
A logistics chore.
Is it like this in the rest of america? Other countries?
Do you feel the same?
So I wonder how to make it work nowadays with
A mate when we spend more time apart than
Together?
Roger,32, northeast usa
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you have to make it work and it will not change with regards to being actually together or apart. We live in a world where we are encouraged to be too busy and work our lives away.
As i told a friend here on pc, life moves too fast. You have to carve out time proactively to spend together or it won't happen. Things come up everyday, and although we rationalize that we can't spend time due to this that or the other thing, we always have choices to make. If you don't make time, find things to enjoy now when apart, I guarantee it won't change much when you're together. Life will still be allowed to get in the way. Don't let that happen.