All I want to know is how to move on after a break up. Is there any other tips except for "go out with your friends, be around your friends, work more, make yourself busy"? I know that I lost first and maybe last love of my love and I can't stop picturing him living our dream life with someone else, can not believe that we won't have kids together like we always wanted, feeling angry knowing that he is doing much better than me now, that he has taken care of himself when I am so deeply broken. Today was a first day of a psychotherapy, but I still feel dead inside. how do I go through this?