The patient client relationship, even at the beginning, is important.A first impression is important, and a second impression could result in a different opinion. Always remember, you ARE the most important in your dealing with others. As a nurse told me, if you feel like you have been 'hurt', then you have been hurt. Even if no one else feels like it "should have hurt you" it does not matter. Your feelings, are exactly what YOU feel right then, and it's affect on you matters to YOU.

There are good and bad therapists out there, just as there are good and bad of everything. What works for one person, does not always work for another person. Go with what you feel. If you like a therapist, you instantly feel better, and therefore, I think, you would benefit more from the advice you receive.