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Old Dec 12, 2013, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
By saying, I'll just do it myself, is to lay a guilt trip. Instead of being direct, it is a passive-aggressive way, to get what she wants, you to do the tree. Well, her home, why wouldn't she be the first to start? Why not, ask for help? Your initial post, implies, she isn't able to do it all, herself. Which is the underlying tone, in that do it herself statement.
Yeah I think if she absolutely had to she could but I doubt it honestly. She's got a prosthesis (she can walk and all that) but it would be really hard. I would be a horrible horrible person to just watch her do it and not do it myself.
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