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Old Dec 12, 2013, 07:48 PM
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My T has never said that what I'm telling her made her feel sick, but she's said that some of the things I've shared with her have made her feel angry. She once told me that a fond memory I had of my childhood was heartbreaking. That was very hard to hear, because it made me re-think that memory and for a while, it wasn't a happy memory for me anymore. I had to remember that we all experience things differently and that from the outside, that memory could easily be heartbreaking, but for me it was something special.

I think the best thing to do would be to just bring it up with your T. You could maybe say something like - "I found it very upsetting when I was telling you my story last time and you said that it made you feel sick. Could you help me understand your comment a little better?" It doesn't have to be a confrontation. You can approach it by just stating how his comment made you feel and wanting to explore that.
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