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Old Dec 12, 2013, 07:59 PM
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Thanks Leah123, probably you're right and I should bring it to my next session but that means that I would have to "confront" with him and what if he agrees that it makes him sick so maybe I should look for someone else?

Anilam: I have my therapy in English (actually I think that it might be easier to talk about the trauma in English than in mother tongue) and unfortunately I have a very good memory, he said "when you were talking about it I was feeling sick"...
I can understand that fear, but I believe it's extremely unlikely that he meant it in the most negative way that you're taking it. I believe he was more likely trying to show you some compassion and empathy and maybe he could have used a better word! I know these things can be painful to discuss. I do hope everything goes well for you when you talk to him next!!!