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Old Dec 12, 2013, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Gr3tta View Post
Costello, do you think maybe your son is making it easier for himself to enjoy new, unfamiliar, and therefore frightening experiences by adding in an element of familiar negativity? Maybe he's not so much torturing himself but easing himself into it?
You may be right, Gr3tta. I know negative emotions can be familiar and comfortable.

At any rate, the date is over and it seems to have gone ok. He called and talked a while, and you can tell how much more relaxed he is. What a relief! When he's stressed, I get stressed. I wish I could stop doing that.
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