Sara, as far as your diagnosis and treatment--here is what happened to me. When I started with my current therapist, each session I would want to talk about a different mental health issue (I have several of them). Finally, my therapist said that we should set some goals. I gladly agreed with this, as I never could focus on the same thing consistently. After getting to know me, she suggested we focus on building assertiveness and self-esteem. Those two continue to be my goals, though I have other issues. Often, when treating one issue, another is also helped. I want to emphasize that last sentence.