I recently got dumped at the critical age of 29. I was hanging in there with this guy who gave signals of wanting to move the relationship to the next stage. Now I am only able to see that this was his cruel trick of making me stay with him. Met him when I was only 23. Just think all the years I wasted!!!
Well, he immediately and very easily moved on with his life and is now with somebody else. Ok, so here is the worst part for me: He has his own website where he selfishly writes things about himself and his days. Everyday, maybe even twice a day, I find myself reading his on-line "journal" over and over. I don't know why I do this. This is hurting me because I am sort of forcing to look at his happy life with this new person that he's with. I am unable to stop! I am actually rubbing this into my very own face! What would you do? Would you ignore his website?

My life after this break-up has only been going downhill. While he is all happy and content in his new relationship, I have had dates with bad characters. Now that I am 30, nobody shows any interest. Some run away when I tell them my age. The ones that seemed interested were not emotionally stable and took out their own past break-ups on me. I am currently thinking of writing an email to my ex, just to let him know what his actions did to my life. I want to let him know that his selfishness to play around (waste!) my time was so critical that now I am facing a life alone. Why should he enjoy his life without any guilt?! Why shouldn't I make him see the damage that he has done to a person's life? Would I be wasting my breath? What would you do? Would you write to him? Would you write to an ex to notify him/her that your life is horrible because of his/her selfish actions?

Thanks for reading this loooong post.