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Originally Posted by Maranara
I don't know what to say...the only advice I can give is do not say anything in front of your child. Do not let your child know you're unhappy. Do not ever give any indication that once your child leaves so can you. I was a child like that....
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Maranara, first.. hugs!!!
Second, a few questions:
- Don't you think a child can sense that 'something is wrong' ?
- Don't you think children will learn to "shut up and take it" if we don't express our unhappiness?
I've been in an unhappy marriage for a long time..and I've done NOTHING publicly to let anyone know I am unhappy... I've tried to talk to her about marriage counseling, without luck...
The greatest fear I have is that I've inadvertently taught my children to "stay in an unhappy relationship"...
Thoughts?