Hi, I'm agnostic and I know what you mean. I think a lot of people think of it as "silly" to become depressed over certain things such as these. I am easily triggered and brought down by my situations. It is just what happens.

I comepletely disagree with Useless Me. If God exists, which is unknowable for mankind, and if he intervienes in our lives, then he does give us more than we can handle/bear. Just look at all the people dying. They couldn't "handle/bear" that, they died. Why do people commit suicide if they were given something that they could handle/bear?

Sorry, I don't mean to turn this into a religious debate. But that is what happens when you bring up such things.

Anways, everything that has happened up until this very moment in our lives has made us into who we are. That is all.