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Originally Posted by 15LRC
Hii everyone!  . Okay so I hang out with a group of people, and one of these people I feel like is a fake friend even though she says she likes me as a friend. I think actions speak louder than words. When she is by herself with me, she will talk to me, but around others, it is like I don't exist. And she also complains how much she hates it when people do that to her. She also constantly asks me for money and even asks me to have some of my food, once she took half of it without permission although lately I kept her from doing that and no longer lend her money or food. I feel like I'm more of a back up friend or someone she just befriended out of pity. She befriended a couple other people out of pity since even though she can't stand them, she doesn't want confrontation or want to hurt feelings so she pretends to like them. I confronted her several times about it and even talked to a couple other people about it and they all say that there is nothing wrong and that she is a true friend and that it is probably just because of her ADHD, but I'm still not feeling right. Not sure if I am overreacting or not.
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Based on what you stated, I strongly suggest that you distance yourself slowly from this person. Alot of people are like that these days worldwide, it's not a cultural or nationality. It's just how things are these days.
You be nice to them, they ****ing take advantage of you. REMEMBER, stay away from such people. Be safe & prosper.