Yes he is trying to soothe myself. he cheated me before. i am not saying that he is cheating now. i am so abusive now because he cheated me past 3 years. still i feel pain in my heart. he broken my heart completely. he is creating drama as he never cheated me before. so he says that " come and stay with me sure you can feel that i am not cheating you". staying with him is not possible now because i fear about my culture.
he says "he thought all my colleagues as my sisters. don't irritate me. if you have trust just come with me i will be prove that i will be good person. dont torture me anymore"
if he goes in extreme level he says " i will be like this attitude if you wish come with me otherwise just leave me to enjoy my life with my friends(boy friends)"

what i should do now? can i go to stay with him? can i trust him anymore? if i want him to get attract by me what i should do? give me suggestion to get his attention towards me.. moreover we got married legally.