In my next life, I want to have a mother or father who cares for and has unconditional love for me, so I wouldn't have to go through my childhood and young adulthood figuring it all out on my own. I would like for that parent to not be physically and emotionally abusive, too, and not so completely narcissistic that s/he is void of empathy and incapable of giving or receiving love. Even as an adult, I'd like to be able to turn to a parent for guidance or support when there is a problem, instead of receiving guilt, blame, harsh words, and a lecture on my imperfections. When I do something amazing, or receive an award or compensation for my work, I would like to have a parent who does not belittle what I've done, or try to take credit for it. I would like a parent who does not need constant stroking and praise in order to like me. It wouldn't have to be a great parent, just a usual one with good points and faults like most everyone has. It's good to be a survivor; if it doesn't break you it makes you strong, but next time around, I'd really like to experience the parent-thing everybody I know seems to take for granted.

That is my wish. Do you have one?