Mac... Thanks for the insight. I've left him alone.
U say do something. What can I do besides leave him alone.
He needs to get meds. He needs to step up. He wont Change until he decides to. He spent all his life with it. I'm just some one who came by 8 years ago.
His option is ...." I'm a parasite. I suck happiness out of u. U deserve better so lets break up"
I'd rather he say allllll that and say I'm going to fix it. Help me. Or leave me alone ill do it myself.

His words say I wanna fix it but does nothin about it.

That is why I wanna know if I'm jus flogging a dead horse and shud just cut my losses.