You should read the play called "A Doll's House" by Henrik Ibsen. You're situation reminds me of it and you may like the play, I certainly did.

Here is the link to the play (although it looks long I read it in a short period of time)
A Doll's House, by Henrik Ibsen

I personally have never been through such an event like yours because I'm quite young, but I thought I could at least contribute this play that is similar to the situation of questioning of one's identity.