If you stay with someone that does not trust you, and who scares you you are never going to be able to breath, to relax, to actually be able to enjoy life.

You guys are not married yet. This is good. You can get out of the situation much easier, with no legal situations to deal with.

Do you feel unsafe? If you do, please get in touch with a domestic abuse program, they can assist you on getting out of the situation safely. If you think you are okay, find a family member or friend that you can stay with during this process of leaving him.

You say that he was verbally abusive in the past, but is better now? That is a red flag. People who are abusive often have a pattern of being abusive, supposedly changing their ways...but almost always go back to the abusive behavior...often with increased intensity. Don't wait around for his ugly side to reemerge. Get out.

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