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Originally Posted by Underground
Reality is a difficult definition for most. We deal with what we have and try to do better. Seeing our own patterns and learning how to hold back on many is what make's me better. I think no matter how far I come I will always have to work. I will also have to have those times of absolute misery because of this. All we can do is wake up each day and try something different. The lie is what is perceived but in fact it is what we are. I know the feelings all too well but we can do right, no matter if it's a "lie" or not.
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Reality is facing up to who we really are we can see ourselves with our attributes as well as our flaws we accept that we are imperfect and so is everyone else. We need to learn to love ourselves to understand the meaning of real love and to be able to feel it and experience it. It is very difficult Most people have some narc traits it is only when these traits take over that it becomes a disorder. You are running from childhood memories escaping from how those made you feel This is not your fault but you can re learn and re gain your personality again - you do not need to be false you can be yourself and accept every consequence of living and dying I wish you nothing but the best - if you really want it badly enough - you will get there
