You are not cut off from anything, unless you allow yourself to further be subjected to his abuse. His abuse will grow, and seems to be already. He will not change, and has not changed at all.

Someone needs to love and respect and protect you, that person needs to be you.

Trippin has the rest just fine. Steer your own ship and create the life you want by taking the lead. Do you love yourself? If yes, even a little then stop allowing your precious self to be abused. When we continually allow ourselves to be subjected to abuse we become self abusers right along with them.

It's no joke, and it's nothing to play with. Women end up with no self, no sense of being, and sadly to often no life at all. There was a memorial for my dear friend yesterday morning, her husband took her life. No one saw it coming, no one knew in the last few months it had escalated to this. He wasnt physically abuse, but emotionally abusive. Two young girls are left without a mother, without a father (as he took his life with hers) family and friends are devastated and heartbroken. The daughters have been separated too.
It's unbelievably tragic and painful for the people left here to deal with it. Watching the whole thing being splashed all over our news headlines. It's more heart breaking than I can say.

I do not want to see this happen to more women and to you. I was nearly killed by my ex twice. There are numerous women here at PC that have been through the same. It's very real, and it is very serious, please treat it as such. It's not something us women should be humming and hawing about. It's not something you wait for them to change. You do the changing, and that starts by getting them out of your life. You need to be the change that you want to see.

I left by going to a women' s shelter with three small children in tow, who were 2 and a half, four, and five years old. We left with one suitcase of clothing for all four of us. No money, no family or friends. But there are options, and there is help available to you... if you want help. It is doable. We have quite a good life now, but I shiver to think what would have happened had I stayed.
I am.with a wonderful man, and have been for almost 8 years, he is also a wonderful father to my children. He is not a cheater, nor is he an abuser, not in the slightest. Why would you believe anything your bf says at all. He has proven he is not to be trusted, and his word holds no value.

Your bf is the one who is being impure, and he is threat to you and others, not the other way around. This is what abusers do, make you think the problem is you, deflect all their problems onto you. That is not love at all, it's sick and it's disgusting. It's brain washing.

What you really need is the help of yourself. Friends, family etc is great, can they keep you from him? No. Can you keep yourself from him? Yes.