Hi. I agree with the boundaries feedback. I was given a book on them by a T bc my mom and I are so enmeshed. When I was younger I had similar problems almost like I had borderline personality. I found myself acting like a chameleon - becoming the person I thought my current friend wanted me to be. It's emotionally exhausting to try to please everyone and it's impossible. You end up getting the short end of the stick when bending over backwards to tell ppl what you think they want to hear. I'm very sorry about your parents divorce and I hope you don't get caught in the middle.

It took me a long time to realize I have no control over what other people think!! I have no control over what people think of me either. On AA's sobriety coins it says "to thine own self be true." I believe this is what gives me serenity and ownership of my life.

Tnt ♥

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