I've been in relationship for a long time, it started when I was quite young, so it seem for me like I've never been single at all. I am not "top model looking" but pretty and not stupid I think.. but for some reason I don't see or notice men flirting with me or trying to get my phone number etc. What could it be? I am quiet myself and find it hard to get with most people I meet but does it mean that my private love life will be affected by that? anyway, the question is, what attracts men in women? how it happens with you guys?