Thread: Missing talking
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Old Dec 14, 2013, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Cavi View Post
I am putting this out there for ones that want to be friends with their T. I am friends with mine and still see her once a week. Trust me it doesn't work. When that line is crossed their feelings come into the relationship.

Example. She is going through a really rough time the last 4 weeks and our sessions have been about her and what is happening in her life. This is going to sound really selfish but I miss when our talks were about my issues and I was learning about me.

Things for her are only going to get worse and I feel I have no one to talk too. I am her sounding board. Her support. Before you jump into a relationship with your T outside of client/T think about this post. Its not all roses. Cavi
She's violating professional ethical standards if she's allowing this and using your therapy time for her issues. I hope you find a good new therapist if that's the case, because I completely agree, it's not healthy and she's taking advantage of you.
Thanks for this!
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