Sounds like you have few options. Only he can change his behavior and from what you say he has little motivation to do so.
The first thing I would do is talk to an attorney and try to sort your finances so you can proceed with a divorce.
This may not be what you are wanting to hear but it is how I honestly see the situation.
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