Lightinthesky, instead of answering your question, I'd suggest you give consideration to what sort of man you want to attract. Some guys are looking for women with tats on their neck, arms & legs and / or can swear like a sailor. Other men would pass that woman on by. To each their own. Lol - I do see a lot of very attractive women with some real loser dudes. Makes me wonder what they see in them. For what it's worth, once you decide what you're looking for - the dreams you have & where you see yourself going or want to go, concentrate on being true to that ideal and go fishing in that pond. You'll catch what you're looking for !