She IS using you- She isn't your T anymore and I'd go even that far to say she's not even your friend... Find a new T ASAP.

I don't want to be friends with my T, TBH, can't really imagine being friends (really equal friends not mentor/pupil, parent/child RS) with s.o. who used to be your T. However, being "friends" while still in therapy? Unethical and stg a T should lose a license for.