I think my fear of men was born out of a mixture of experience and my own view of what I thought they were all about. It's hard, because men have a totally differnt take on sex then women do. So I still have a hard time accepting that. I can take it or leave it, but my boyfriend feels totally different and it's hard. I've had to start setting boundries in regards to sex, not forcing myself to do it just because I know he wants it, because I was causing my own resentments at men and sex.

But it's hard, when all you hear about is sex and (expletive for breasts) when you hang out with guys. N wonder we all think that's all they want from us.

I've really had to work hard on myself to change my views and start loosing the fear. It's not easy, but it's a lot better than I used to be.