My aunt was travelling down with her husband to see my mother and to take her for a meal yesterday. My mother wanted me to go, but l said no, as last time l saw him, he acted inappropriately towards me (unwanted physical contact) which l had already told my mother about. She kept asking, telling me how much my aunt wanted to see me, so l gave in and tried the best l could to tolerate his behaviour. Then my mother rang me today and asked if l had a nice time yesterday evening. What part of "I can't bear him, because he touched me inappropriately" doesn't she get?! Ahhh!