hi,
I have BPD too
please dont let people tell you its untreatable, and dont let doctors fob you off.
it is treatable, just not easily, and its hard to get access to the right kind of treatment.
meds may help with some symptoms but they wont cure, the main treatment someone with BPD needs is psychotherapy, including things like DPT and CBT

doctors dont like people with BPD, and its a hard hard thing to cope with, but it can be done.

here for ya if you ever wanna chat, PM me and i will give you my email addy (cos i dont log onto this forum very often, too many forums to keep up with LOL)