i think a healthy part of the discussion could be the very fact that misconceptions and such could be discussed and things cleared up. i see no male bashing at all.

i see women honestly admitting how they feel about certain things and how it has impacted their relationships now or to be......

how will one learn and grow if the misconceptions aren't cleared up by opening up here? where it's a safe support forum.

this could turn out to be a "life-saver" for some of us.......pat