i have forgiven her... we dont ever want to talk about it.... i hate the subject coming up. and we both would like it to just go away.... unfortunately, its not that cut and dry. what she did, has altered how i trust her and question her love and dedication... this is the stuff she is working hard to earn back... but, she lost it once and now is hard to not think, how serious does she take this relationship... only time will give me that answer and make me believe it again. i do not make her relive it, i hate talking about it, and she hates remembering it... we are trying to move on from it. even though like i said the anger has gone i still feel betrayed... i just want that to pass and know if people have truly moved on from their experience...