((((((((Lightinthesky))))))))) Sorry you are having such a tough time and have lost someone you love. It will take time for you to get through this grief. Be kind to yourself. You didn't deserve this.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin
"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha