Awwwwww I'm soooo sorry you're hurting right now!!

Ouch to what she said,I can honestly say I know that pain. I too went through a similar problem and lines were cross (doesn't help being BPD) and a T with lose boundaries.

I know its hard to hear but she is right,she cannot be your mother,nobody can be your mother except your own. I know it's hard to swallow and you're hurting lots right now. I know it feels unbearable and I too felt as though my T was abandoning me.

You will be okay!

This could be a lesson for yourself,to strengthen your own boundaries,not just with T but with people in general. I know I struggled with boundaries in my every day life also but you are dealing with the emotions of it all and I know it hurts really badly but you'll get through it. I promise you will

Keep us updated on how you're doing and if you ever want to talk PM me