I disagree with the definitions of porn or at least wish it was categorized or rated in some way other than just "soft" or "hard" porn. It's all under the same label regardless of how kinky it is. Some content considered porn is very arousing to me - other porn to me is totally gross & turns me off completely. To each their own - but if I had an ideal partner that satisfied me I don't think watching any porn would be needed or desired. As it is in the real world, I use as needed.