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If you have a healthy relationship with your needs being filled you do not need porn. If you need that much hardcore stimulation to get aroused or orgasm then there there is something not right with you. Someone having to watch porn to "get off" would be a deal breaker.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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