I don't really watch porn very much but I do struggle with it from time to time. Generally I don't think it's healthy at all. I am single so it would not ruin any relationships I have with women but I just think that lust is dangerous. It may not be dangerous at all times but it can cause a lot of problems so I think it best to stay away for it.
For me personally, when I do give into the temptation of porn, it will feel great during that time but once it's over I'll hate myself for a couple days because I believe it to be immoral. I find it very degrading, self destructive, and overall it's not worth it to me. I also consider myself a romantic and you can think whatever of that, I even think it's kind of stupid, but I don't want to meet the love of my life one day only to lose her because I can't give up my addiction to porn.
Some other posters have a good point though, that if it doesn't cause you any ill effects or if it's consensual with your partner than maybe that's okay, but I still feel that in those cases you are playing with fire and it can potentially cause destruction.
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