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Originally Posted by bird candle
Lightinthesky, it sounds like we are going through a very similar situation...I too am questioning the whole relationship on the basis of my exes now behaviour - how can we mean so little in such a short space of time - how can they stop loving so fast? One site that really helped me was the 'depression fallout messageboard' please google it, it has been such a help to me. Also please feel free to message me on here, I know how hard it is to resist getting in touch. I feel like I'm never going to be whole again! How silly is that?
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Thank you for your advice, I'll definitely have a look at that website.
I don't know how ppl who claimed that they loved, are able to cut off ties just like that, how can they be so cold and ignorant, how can you possibly move on with your life just like that, like we never existed? Makes me think like a person perhaps never truly loved because one thing, I don't believe that love is endless do I don't believe someone can just stopp feeling, after a break up I even got a tattoo which is a symbol of "infinity love".
So maybe they had different feelings and was easier for them to call it love, if you ever loved someone and even when it's over - you wouldn't hurt them like that, by being so cold.
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