I know exactly how you feel on the 'how can someone just loose their love' front, in fact I've searched far and wide for answers, asked so many questions but as everyone says I don't think we'll ever get a true answer. Lots of people say that depression affects your interests in things you once used to love doing and maybe this is why they fall out of love so easily? I'm starting to come round to think that the love in my relationship was lost to another girl, even if it will only be temporary...