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Originally Posted by touchdownlexus
that was on the 14th. On 14th night I finally gave in and asked him whats going on. He said he feels resentment about the fact that for once he made a well informed decision about parting ways and I guilted him to change his decision. And that's the reason the last 15 days he has consciously or subconsciously been a jerk. And that IT IS OVER NOW.
. But he thinks its time to move on and that I shudnt blame everything in depression and that he made the decision not influenced by depression and THIS was the real him and people change!!
He says he has lost the fight in him
What do I do now??
(I know I shud maintain my dignity and give him space and let it be cuz I was never happy anyway. I also know the whole 180 approach. But knowing is different from applying. )
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You wrote that he 'lost the fight in him.' I don't see relationships, as something you have to 'fight for', per se. Yes, they a level of awareness to ensure that they keep working and two people making a commitment to one another, and the ability to support one another, but fighting to keep it working? I am not sure, they[relationships] are meant to be such a struggle.
What brought him, to say, that you shouldn't blame everything on depression? Moving forward, that could be something to reflect on, as a growth spot.
I am sorry to read, that he ended things. Break up are never easy.
